Are You Ready for Love Tarot Spread...
One of the most tempting things to do when we leave one relationship is to jump immediately to another. I've also met enough people in my lifetime that were terrified of being alone (an understandable fear!), leading them to lives of serial monogamy. While everyone's situation is unique, I did sometimes wonder whether this was a healthy attitude to take.
It's important for us to feel whole before we meet someone, not enter a relationship in order to feel complete. You cannot have a healthy relationship with another without having a healthy relationship with yourself. Thus, I feel like doing a reading of this sort is incredibly important to understand that nexus around which a healthy relationship evolves. This spread was created to give you that approach while simultaneously focusing on how it affects your romantic life.
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What you want in love - What does it mean to you? Why are you searching for it? What is your ideal kind of love?
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What you learnt from love - What lesson did you take away from your prior relationships? How did past experiences in love give you more wisdom?
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What holds you back from love - What must you accomplish before love comes to you? Before it holds true?
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Readiness of your heart - Is your heart ready? Does it still belong to another?
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Readiness of your mind - Is your mind ready? What objections does it bring? Does it fear being hurt again?
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Readiness of your spirit - Is your spirit ready? How does your higher self respond to love?